General

1. Show some respect! This should go without saying, but too many times I see people deprecating and disparaging each other. No one is forcing you to view a cam. If you don’t like what you see, why do you have to announce it or talk about the person, just stop viewing the damn cam! Thanks!
2. Most women are ostensibly lesbians — deal with it. Not that most really like women, but they most likely will be viewing a woman’s cam instead of a guys. I think most of them are actually watching a porn while they get off.
3. Cancel two weeks or so prior! If you’re on a subscription basis, make sure you cancel atleast two weeks ahead of the next billing time. Best way is to phone in, but a lot offer online services where you can cancel. Make sure you write down your order/member number and keep it in a secure place.
4. Stop using racial terms and disgusting terms in general. Chat rooms are pretty synonymous for discriminatory and gender attacks because of the anonymity I guess. Well, it needs to cease. If you make a room and  see this type of behavior going on, please be sure to boot said person/people. Yeah, we know most people like drama, but it’s dumb and ridiculous.
5. Don’t discriminate based on gender. I’ve seen this more than a few times. Making a room catered to lesbians, gay, or certain ethnicity is OK, I guess, but when you tell one group they have to be on cam, and another doesn’t, that stuff just doesn’t fly.
6. Boot and report anyone under 18! This is probably one of the main issues. If you know that someone is in a SEX chat room that’s under 18, boot and report immediately — especially if you’re the room host.
7. Get a Paypal card and remember if you’re just testing a site, cancel immediately. Using my Paypal card, i was able to avoid further subscription charges because it canceled any transaction as long as I didn’t have enough money on my account, so put just enough on there, and you’re good to go.

Men

1. Stop announcing! Yeah, the ladies know you have your dicks out and you’re ready to cum, but that doesn’t mean they’re gonna look. Oh yeah, and don’t ask them can you cum. You don’t ask your mom can you take a piss, right? Then feel free to nut whenever you feel, most likely they’re not watching anyway.
2. Calm down! You guys get excited way too quick. I mean, yes, then ladies look nice, sexy, some even gorgeous, but keep your damn composure. Stop going crazy and spamming the chat because you’re enjoying it too much. Try to get whomever in a private room and do that. Ask once, maybe twice. If they say no to something, just deal with it. My definition of begging is asking more than twice.
3. Stop all the compliments! This may be the biggest one of them all. Ask yourself a question real quick. If a woman is getting herself off on cam, what’s the main reason? Got it? Give up yet? I know the answer, it’s for the attention! You guys are too quick to throw compliments around and too many at that. You could have just about every woman naked in the room if you talk amongst yourself, or atleast stop complimenting until they start giving you a show. And with that said, women are very competitive at times. Make all your focus on the woman that is showing, and ignore the rest, this will most likely rile and the rest, and get them to know that if they want the attention, then they need to show some skin. How do I know this? Well, it’s simple. A man will kill to have one woman view their cam, women demand an audience. Ask her to go private if she really likes you. Furthermore, get her Yahoo, MSN, etc account name and chat with her on their. Get down to showing each other on cam. I GUARANTEE you she’s showing more than just you.
4. Stop directing! Period. Stop telling the woman what you want to see or her to do unless she asks. If you want to direct, then go to a PPM/Credit site and you can do all the directing you want.
5. Your main viewers will be other men.  First off, let me say I don’t discriminate on the basis of anything, however, I do not want to get off knowing a guy is watching me on cam. I don’t care if they’re looking if I don’t have my dick in my hand or with a woman, but if I’m jacking, I tend to block their cams or stop in general, unless I know I’m helping get a woman off, too (yes, I have had a lot of women view my cam).
6. Stop and think! With the above mentioned, what odds are their that there’s a woman hiding behind that profile. A lot of guys will make a woman’s profile and not display their cams, but proclaim to love your ‘piece’. If you exchange Yahoo or whatever info, make sure you confirm it’s a woman, and not a man or a bot. Do this by making them get on cam before you, or voice verify them, since they’ve already seen you, and DO NOT click on any link they send. If they aren’t willing, then oh well, what are you missing? 9 times out of 10 this method works. A few times I got pissed because a woman got me on Yahoo and wanted me to show mine, but wasn’t willing to reciprocate, then I see them the next day or week with their titties out on cam. WTF!? That’s just wrong on all accounts.
7. DO NOT make a woman’s profile, period. if you are a TS, gay male, etc, make a male profile. The only leeway I show is for couples, and that’s slim. If you’re a couple, make sure the woman is on the damn cam most of the time please.
8. Just because it’s an adult room does not mean a woman has to get naked, nor has to be harassed. If you want that, make your own room and boot everyone who doesn’t get naked. Thanks!
9. Use correct grammar. I know most of you are typing with one hand, but “open tits”, “open u tits”, etc are not complete sentences and/or don’t make sense. Please act like you have some.
10. Don’t ever feel bad for room-hopping or showing attention to another girl since one isn’t showing. Women do this all the time, so don’t feel bad for doing it, too.
11. When using a PPM/Cam site, make sure you choose women you know well, or at least ones that are already close to nude, also make sure you ask them what type of things they do before going into a private session. Their intent is to keep you there, yours should be to get what you came for immediately and get out! there’s no mind games played here, you have the ability to press the back button or end session anytime you please. If a woman does not at least have her titties out within the first 45 seconds, then I’m leaving out the room. I’m not wasting my time (and cash) to talk!

Women

1. First off, you’re in a sex chat room. I know the guys harrass the hell out of you, but remember this type of behavior will go on since it’s an adult room. Expect explicit language and behavior. (I DO NOT condone the begging at all, btw).
2. I love this one, and I’m sure every guy does, too. DON’T HAVE YOUR CAMERA FOCUSED ON YOUR OPEN CLEAVAGE OR PUSSY AND EXPECT GUYS NOT TO ASK TO SHOW. I thought most would have  learned this from doing it in the real world and getting mad because guys only focus on that one area. I have not, and will not ever ask to show — even if you’re displaying them — but I understand the logic guy’s have when you do it, but get mad when they ask you to show.
3. Some guys don’t like to use the open chat to often (well maybe just me), but feel free to PM them. Take the initiative and PM him, and talk in private if you like.
4. Lay back on a chair or some kind of obstacle, and play with your pussy — the standing and spreading looks a bit awkward, and I know it has to feel kind of awkward to you. That’s just a suggestion because that is the best view, IMO. Pussy = the best. Showing titties and face while playing with your pussy is a bonus.
5. Be prepared to go on cam if I’m going on in private. Um, did you think I was going to get off from looking at my computer screen. I actually need a visual to get hard you know!
6. Titties do not = a dick! This is probably the biggest one of them all. I, myself, love a nice pair of titties, especially brown, perky nipples, but the pussy is the be-all and end-all. If you’re not showing that, then you only get my chest as well. Tit for tit?
7. Stop teasing! Well, this might only be indicative to me, but either show or don’t. Some guys wait hours waiting for that one woman to show her TITTIES. Move along guys and find another woman who is already showing.
8. A show is not pulling your titties out for 5 secs then stuffing them back in your shirt. Hell, to me, you can’t even put on a show using your titties alone, but if you are trying, 5+ mins would be great if you want to call it a show.
9. Women, you make the room! So, is you feel it’s boring, then “spice it up”, so to speak. Even conversation-wise. Men are gonna respond to you pretty much in a positive way no matter what — so make the room entertaining! Remember, girls make the rooms, guys just fill them.
10. Stop using your pics from 1999. Don’t use pics you took years ago and claim it as a current one. Take a new, fresh pic. I’m sure your mail will still be full at the end of each day still.